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Originally Posted by llblovesejw
I am pregnant.
And the doctor helped me tell my mom.
They want me to give it up for adoption or even let my Aunt Tina adopt it.
But I really really don't want that at all, and I am crying profusely at this point and I don't want to give it up..........
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Stop crying since that's not good for you or your baby. Realize if you do choose adoption; family members do make it very difficult. Why? You are always the "Mom" unknown to the child & in time the child
will find out. How do you handle this when the child is 18 and needs a birth certificate copy of his/her own? How far along are you?
How is your Mom & Dad taking this news? This is one reason I said to have a plan. However, realize it will be a difficult life as well for you raising a baby. Always ask one question when facing such "What is in the best interest of my baby?"
Keep your chin up!
