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You are placing the cart before the horse.
People are often not what they seem particularly when hidden behind a computer screen.
Make an appointment to meet each other in a cafe where the door swings both ways. If you like each other initially, then continue the conversation a bit longer and end with a decision to meet again then set a date and time. Do this a few times and gain some insight about each other. You cannot do this writing letters and notes back and forth.
If the meeting does not go as hoped, no harm no foul. If the initial meeting works out well then go for a few more and learn more about each other. If you want just a sexual relationship with each other then you will have a much better feel for his character and personality than if you only write back and forth. Besides, writing before meeting is what you have done, now get down to the personal stuff. If you continue to write you just delay the inevitable whatever it might be.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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