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Do you or do you not trust him?

If you do not, then what course of action would you want to have next?

I recommend that the two of you get together and have a discussion or two at a time when the two of you are not planning on becoming romantic and then discussing what you want from a relationship, what he wants, and what each of you foresees for yourselves while dating. Define the relationship.

A relationship and this includes the sexual aspect of one is a partnership in which we work together in order to have something greater than the sum of its two parts. In the short term, do not define your friendship sexually; instead, work on broadening and deepening the friendship. Do this and the sexual aspect if there is to be one will pretty much take care of itself.

This is the same course of action I would recommend for a heterosexual couple. If a couple cannot find common ground and interests, what good is the sex unless it is to be just lust and getting your collective rocks off?