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Old 10-16-2008, 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by dlb View Post
Sera, yes we men get ticks also. Fortunately where I work we are more at risk from tics than ticks. So my body fur is not a liability.

I think the bottom line here is - different strokes for different folks. That applies in pretty much every aspect of life.
Ticks are so prevalent here, just sitting in your back yard they are climbing on you! Much less trying to go for a nice walk, mow the lawn, or let a pet outside they find a way on you. The fastest way is to climb up shorts and the infected ones are the size on a small pin head...therefore, having had the disease multiple times & last time with neurological symptoms which were severe...chose the waxing.

However, what I find overall is the expectation in society of being fully hairless. Now, with women, I can see yes underarms, bikini lines, and legs are just manners & etiquette. Trimming some hair in the pubic area does decrease discomfort from clothing getting caught & reduces retention of odor & bacteria. Good hygiene for both men & women are a must; however, this trend of all people being 100& hairless [minus the head] is just odd to me. It's more of an expectation today rather than a choice. Keeping legs/arms waxed is actually easier since it does reduce "get ready for the day time" on a daily basis and avoids cuts.

One point though I am not certain men understand when they do shave the genitals; just as they have five o'clock shadow on their face....uhmmm, so does their genitals and honestly during intercourse I find it very uncomfortable...stubble. Now, if in a relationship where sex is regular, once or twice a day...that's a great deal of upkeep. I do not know if men realize their shaving stubble on their genitals hurts women and really ruins the mood! Conversely, I would think men find the same with women...if she saved in the am, comes home form work, there is stubble...that must be uncomfortable when burying a face down south--seems more like a brier patch.
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