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Originally Posted by Ladies_Delight
I been with my gril for 7yrs and her head game is not good at all. i thought i just didn't like getting head but i found out it was just her, i let other female go down on me and they was the bomb.And another thing i find myself not being sexually attracted to her anymore i guess thats why i cheat and the fact she is very bad in bed. i love her but i need good sex too. I have been faking in bed since we been together i know thats bad and i tried telling her but i can't cause i know it will hurt her feeling cause she really think she good in bed, maybe to other female she is but to me i rather watch an old movie then let her go down on me. I don't know what to do, i also found myself wanting to do a threesome. What should i do help a sista out.
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Here is a novel thought; show her what turns you on. A good sexual relationship is formed through discussing each other's needs & wishes; as well as, guiding your partner to what you enjoy. Seeking sex outside of a relationship is no good substitute for lack of communication skills. This concept is not one that is only a matter for those who are homosexual or bisexual; even in a straight relationship, you need to convey to any partner what you like or dislike in a kind & gentle manner--outside the bedroom. You cannot expect another person to guess; meanwhile, complaining about disappointment [even if done secretly]. Fairness extends to all relationships and I do not see where you have been fair to her in anyway.
Please write a bit more properly so people can understand what you are saying, in order for others to be capable of providing you with an answer. Da is not a substitute for "the" and "sista" means what?.