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My younger brother got married about 6 months after our mom died. He lived in Colorado and my mom and dad lived in Michigan so most of the people at the wedding knew my mom had past away yet as I had moved home the year before didn't know who I as. I walked with my dad up the aisle, and even though it wasn't my wedding day it is a memory stuck in my mind. As we walked up the aisle everyone was vocal in wondering if I was my dad's girlfriend. Let's see he, my dad, was 68 and I was 25. Yes he was that adorable. Then it was no no no that's his sister. It was a very interesting walk up that aisle. That and having to almost physically sit on my dad to keep him from dragging one of the groomsman out of the church. This groomsman was totally drunk and weaving during the ceremony. Dang I havent smiled this much in a long time.
And as I have posted previously I have a cousin, by marriage, that I was freaked out a little by when reading an email asking me to stand in for my cousin, his late wife, at two of their son's weddings this past summer. The sentence "still looking for a date" gave me a shiver. Now I have know this man since I was 4 and he married my cousin when I was 8 so HE is my cousin, at least in my brain. I love him, like all my cousins, and as I am the oldest female on that side when I say "my men" he is one of the men that is included. Mess with my men you mess with me!
Incest is wrong, I don't see it having any productive part in society. Infidelity is wron and again I don't see it having any productive part in society. If you have to justify then I think you also see that.
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