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Discovering a lover is in fact related after the relationship has started as two people meeting or being introduced outside the home rather than two people that grew up in the same home is different. If being a child who had been put up for adoption and as an adult discovering thru exploring my biological roots that I was in or I had been in a relationship with a biological sibling I would need counseling.
If thru exploring this I discovered I was married to a sibling could I continue this relationship, on the same level. It might be a few weeks of intense therapy. Obviously if children were involved I would want to give them 100% of mom, yet after discovering this how is it explained to them? And what tests would I want to make sure that they are ok. Should these children have children of their own, many birth defects show up in future generations, and the terror of birth defects would obviously be a large fear.
Before I am hung out to dry. I was born with a congenital heart defect. Not a product of two siblings simply something that I was born with and inherited from my dad's mom. I have multiple heath issues, common among those of us born with a congenital defect. I made the decision early in life, around 12 when I had my open heart surgery that I was not going to have children myself. This was something, among others, that was discussed between myself, my parents and my doctors. No competing in sports, I so did want to throw myself down the alps (downhill skiing), and no kids.
This all just makes my skin crawl....
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