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Open 'er right up there then dlb lol
I don't deny that for many couples it is completely acceptable to ejaculate on any part of the body and that both parties find it to be an enjoyable experience.
As for my one preferences, I am not opposed to my partner ejaculating in my mouth or on other parts of my body. I wouldn't say I love it, but I do like watching him cum and feeling him do so. I do not like it on my face, partly because of the mess, but not really because I feel it is particularly demeaning, its just something I'm not into. I will add though that in my case I think who the partner is matters a great deal. I had an ex who I absolutely hated giving head and didn't even enjoy sex with becuase I always felt like it was demeaning. turns out it kind of was, because he didn't truly care about me like a boyfriend should. With my current partner, I have grown to really enjoy all aspects of sex, including giving him head and don't feel degraded at all. I think if he were to ask to cum on my face, I wouldn't enjoy it, but I might not feel as weird about it as I think I do. There are certain things that I am more open to when I know that they occur in the company of love, and though I have had fun having sex that was just sex, I would not enjoy doing certain things in that kind of situation.
I do however understand how some women do feel that it may be a demeaning act. I feel its something that a lot of women are just not sexually liberated enough to see it as a pleasurable experience. To many, it is probably just something that is portrayed in porn, where often, from a female's perspective, it does appear to be somewhat degrading, due to the simple fact that porn is porn..not entirely realistic, and very male targeted (not all, but for the average, run of the mill stuff ) Too often women are portrayed as existing for male pleasure, and not for a session of mutual pleasure..or rather that her pleasure is derived entirely from his. Very male dominant. So being a women and being familiar with certain acts only really from that kind of setting, it is natural that they might be found degrading. I think if more women were exposed to sex in a way that allowed them to have a more open mind about particular acts, it might not be such an issue. I think in a lot of ways our society is to blame. I feel like on the average, female sexuality is still very repressed. If we are particularly eager and adventurous with sex, we are often seen as filling a "dirty girl" role, rather than just simply expressing a healthy sexual appetite. I feel that EEK is a perfect example of a women who has given the finger to these societal boundaries, and is fully and unashamedly liberated in her sexual endeavors as every woman should be, no matter what level of "kinky" she is into. I think that many women are not comfortable enough with their own capacity for sex and all that it may entail, and that is an unfortunate thing.
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