Thanks good to know, I think thats why I was feeling like it could possibly be pee even though you were saying it wasn't. It seemed like since there was no accompanying orgasm then the mess would have been less likely to actually be of the ejaculation sort. So I think I maybe have experienced it? yay? lol I'd rather have the joy of a g-spot orgasm first though..still haven't quite gotten there. Just am getting the "need to pee" sensation and discomfort, will keep trying to push through it though.
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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Of the women who find it difficult to orgasm
- what percentage of them is due to social training and to the edicts of their culture/religion?
- and what percentage is due to lack of education?
- and what percentage is due to medical complications?
Orgasms begin in the brain - in her thoughts, convictions, beliefs, attitudes.
So THAT is where the exploration for causes/reasons should begin, between her ears and not between her legs.
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Very interesting point. I think it would actually be pretty meaningful to know what those figures might be. Have any statistics been reported ? Rough estimates even?
Even growing up in U.S. society, with non religious parents who were pretty open about sex, my attitude towards sex used to be fairly negative, even when I first started having it. And my sexual "abilities" also seemed non-existent. But as my attitudes have changed, so has my sexual prowess accordingly. I couldn't agree more that, apart from medical complications, it's all in the head. I get frustrated quite often that I haven't experienced what some other women have, but I also know that there isn't anything holding me back really except experience and my own mind, which is more relaxed and open about sex everyday, and it definitely helps and shows. All in time. I try to look at it as "things can only get better from here" and don't mind being patient with it.