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Old 09-17-2008, 08:10 AM
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Yes, some agree medically it's there & just as many say it's not present. Establishing the presence of an area is where a medical debate enters. You can go to the doctor and tell them your scrotum hurts, it's findable, & can be assessed. A woman can go to the doctor and say I have pain & upon exam you can establish a bruised cervix. Upon exam you can not with certainty establish a "G-spot".

Sexually some women are fortunate to find it; where as, other women can not even orgasm. This is where one moves from the medical institution thinking and can go on other's theory in the study of human sexuality.

No one really doubts the presence of it when they have experienced it, those who go with traditional thinking go with it being absent. If it's not an area which can be studied & physically dissected the thinking is it must not exist and it a theory. I believe you will find what Brandye is saying; we are taught there is no such thing as the g-spot, at least I was not in NP school, perhaps med school looks differently at it. However, if you search upon sexual theory; many are very happy to conclude--yes it is there. I believe she is saying she is glad she found hers despite the medical approach of it's not there.

I never knew of it until It was discovered accidentally; glad it has been found although it cannot be proven! It's not like during all the A&P, psychology, and gyn discussions/exams/courses it was taught or even mentioned. Incidental sexual encounters with a former concluded it's there and yes, squirting can happen but is not a guarantee. I recall looking at my ex-fiancee when he asked "what happened...I guess you really liked that!" . I was baffled myself initially, until I did some reading!
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