With regards to dry humping from the original post:
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but i was just wondering what you guys thought about it. I personally think it can be very intense, and I like it. I mean if you are in the right position, it can be pleasuable for both of you. and im a virgin and so is he, so i think its a better way to learn more about eachother before we do take the next step and have sex. I mean if you already have had sex, it probably doesnt effect you the same way it does to someone who hasnt yet. I was just wondering if anyone else thought the same thing as me.
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I had the same experience as you many years ago dating as a teenager. I found grinding, as others prefer to call it, was very pleasurable especially since I hadn't had intercourse. The girlfriend that introduced this to me also enjoyed it. She taught me alot and knew how to get me hard. She would start by having our legs intwined and she would rub me with her thigh and I would rub her crotch with my thigh. Then she would straddle me and put her pussy right on my hard cock and we would hump while continuing to make-out. We did this with our clothes on and it was a pleasant introduction to what sex is. We usually stopped before I ejaculated. But there was one time that we got grinding and neither one of us wanted to stop. I had my hand down her pants feeling her ass through her panties which was a turn on for both of us and we were grinding away. We were panting so hard we couldn't even kiss. I think we both had an orgasm at the same time. I felt myself release and shoot cum all over my underpants and at the same time she let out one last gasp. I enjoyed the feeling of my cum on me and how good it felt to have her bring me off. I knew she was into it because I could feel wetness on her panties, so we both had to change when we got home. We stopped dating awhile after this or I think it may have lead to more great times. But the few times we would make out after that, we both enjoyed the chance to cum by grinding. She would let me slide my hand down her pants and feel her bare ass under her panties. With her letting me play with her tits, feel her ass, and teaching me how nice it was to ejaculate from grinding, I really did enjoy the sexually part of our relationship even though we never did have intercourse. But we went our seperate ways and that we were happy we stimulate each other so well. I'm just sorry I never got to finger her or that she never gave me a hand job. That was probably next if we had kept seeing each other.
When dating my wife, we found we also enjoyed grinding each other. We were virgins and were waiting until we were married for intercourse. The grinding was very nice but also made it hard not to f**k each other. She had some guilt feelings about this and the fact that we got to touching each other so much. But we would be laying on each other kissing and one of us would move a little and touch the right spot and we would just keep going and keep grinding. So it made it hard not to get naked and f**k each other. So it was a good introduction to sex for us and once we got married, the humping through clothes stopped. But we had a hard time not touching and stimulating each other other ways. She enjoyed me running my fingers over her bush and insert my fingers in her. She also loved to rub my hard cock with her hand. Usually it was through my pants. She got brave enough once and reached under my pants and grabbed it. The first time she did this she made me ejaculate. It was the first time she had ever held a hard cock in her hand and then to have me cum, it was great for me, but a little strane for her. But she enjoyed handling my cock and so she would reach in and give me a little rub. But I don't remember her ever getting me to cum again until after we were married. It was many years after we were married that we did the dry humping thing again. We sometimes will grind on each other but it is usually in the nude. She likes to grab my cock and use it to stimulate her clit sometimes.
Once having intercourse, dry humping isn't as good as the real thing. But it sure was fun doing it while dating.