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Originally Posted by Bassic
I agree with madeye. I am enjoying using a messager (vibrating at that). I lube it, put it in and lay down on my bed. I wait about 10 minutes (the prostate seems to enjoy it more the longer it has contact with it) then lightly stroke the shaft a few times, fluid comes out in a steady stream, followed by an intense orgasm, which is then followed by another orgasm. I can then remove the messager and actually masterbate 2 minutes later, and have another strong orgasm. thats 3 orgasms in 10 minutes or less. No man can honestly say no to that. However I would die if my friends found out about it. I'm not even gunna tell my current gf yet. Its too early in our relationship to tell her such a potentially demasculiating (culturally) thing. The sexual stigma's run deep in our culture for both genders. I personally believe that the prostate is something we have evolved to use to have better sex. just because I enjoy it doesnt mean I would want a male to do it to me. There and only there, is the sexual difference between a straight man and a gay man
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Well I would suggest to you, that when you get to a point in the relationship where sex gets a little boring its time to have the "kinky sex" talk.
Just sit down with your gf and discuss new things for the two of you to try. Bring up all the kinky things couples do like Roleplay, dirty talk, toys and exct...
My logic is that discussing a bunch of different kinky things about sex would protect you from her having a negative reaction to the idea of you enjoying anal play. Hopefully she will get the image that your just an open minded kinky guy that loves having sex with her, instead of having a negative (and ignorant) response of "are you a homo".
You don't need to declare your sexuality to anyone, people want to be close minded about male anal play let them. If they push their negative opinion on your open minded sex life simply tell them that within their own logic they are implying that when they masturbate, they like touching a mans cock and are just as gay as yourself... then laugh as they stumble to respond.