[Brandye]

Spot on, Evil. I have read and had the rough spot description many times. Eva and I located one another's long ago and do regular manipulation but neiother of us has the rough patch. Message: these things differ woman to woman.

The secretions of the vagina have two sources. The uterus (menstrual flow, mainly) and through the vaginal walls similar to sweating. The believed source of ejaculation, Skene's gland, have their openings into the urethra or beside the urethral opening.

I agree that women's embarassment affects our sexual enjoyment. How often do we want to release some air but do not and, thereby, prevent our own orgasm? I have. With woman love we tend to be more open than with men. But, then, two women are sticking anything important into one another.

I think Evil is saying relax - as did Doc. No orgasm is possible if we do not learn to let go. And if the bed gets wet, change the damned sheets.