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I agree with Oedipussy and Clever,
DaBoss, there are many partners out there who don't like all the same things. Part of a healthy sexual relationship is being able to be open minded and experiment with one's lover, however, there are some things that some people just won't do and that is pefectly okay as well. Most of the time such an issue isn't worth throwing the towel in on the whole relationship. If two people honestly love eachother and enjoy being together, whether or not one partner feels the same about a particular sexual act as the other, then there is no reason to end the relationship. You just have to try to find other things that will interest both parties, just be more creative. If you really care about someone you wouldn't want to lose them just because they wont let you - insert whatever act here-. That is just you being selfish.
Also, you say "dont have sex with someone that won't let you do such and such" Well, most poeple dont know everything their partner is into until they've started having sex quite a bit. Ive never had a partner where we discuss everything we would like and wouldnt like before hand, it just comes out in the course of things.
The only reason you should end the a relationship based on sexual preferences is if both parties are so completely out of touch that you rarely get to both enjoy sex without making extreme sacrifices, ie one is a total freak while the other is completely inhibited to trying new things and is ok with just regular old missionary all the time- being an extreme example. I do agree that your preferences have to align somewhat...but not perfectly. Its just silly to expect that, and you will be lucky to find someone that wants to do everything you want to do. For instance, most guys would really love to have a threesome, but many girls wouldn't. Should all those relationships be ended then? Think about it.. what you have said is just plain ridiculous and selfish.
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