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> Since we as guys have a lot of practice in this field we also gain self control.

Self control is mostly a function of understanding what our internal feedback is signaling us. When we turn the reins over to our partner we loose the ability to self regulate. In order to regain control over our responses we need to communicate with our partner using verbal or non-verbal feedback in order for us to let them know how we are responding to her caresses and for what we need now/next. The same holds true for her with you.

> I did not think that a girl could make me cum doing only this.

It is quite possible, particularly if the man is very very aroused. Usually the process of giving a hand job is better when verbal or non-verbal feedback is included in the mix. Because guys have a lot of practice, we also quickly develop a technique of rhythms, pressures, and tempo, that we rely upon day in and day out. If a guy guides his partner's hand over the course of a few sessions until she learns to mimic this technique, then hand jobs from another person are much more likely to happen.

The reason our climaxes are so much more intense when we are with a partner and not home alone is because of the chemistry between the two, including the pheromones in the air.

For more on all this, please read the articles listed in the Index found at the top of th main screen.