[orgasmless]

im not a guy but i will answer on his behalf if thats ok? right we have been together for 27 yrs and in the time he did it maybe a handful of times in the first 23 yrs, i didnt like it at all, and still dont to be honest, its not that i think im dirty etc etc its what he s doing, its boring as simple as that realy, so after a few other things came up and a few talks he got reading up on it and since then for the last 4 yrs has done it more often, erm at best all i can say is its work in progress and hes got a long long way to go!! i have even fallen asleep on him doing whatever he is doing down there as i really couldnt tel you what he does do, its just poking around as far as i can tell.
now what he tells me is that he loves doing it, but this is contary to my experience with him in those years prior to the books, surely i he loved it then he would have done more beforehand and been far better than he is now? oh the other thing that sort of proves it to me is this, when hes doing that and naked its very obvious to me hes not into it at all as he has a soft dick the whole time, surely if it turned him on as he claims then it would show?

as for tellinghim what to do i really cant as i have never had it done by anyone else and i dont know what is needed to make it better, but from what he has done i cant tell him to do more of it or whatever is needed as its never had a good feeling at all, its all varying ouches and dont do thats and get off here or there from me, which i hate doing.