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Originally Posted by PrairieFire
I have one of those relationships and my wife and I have enjoyed it immensely, the sex life skyrockets! We have been together for 13 years and one positive I have found is it is a turn on to know that your partner is still sexy to others.
Going to a swing club is a great beginning most of them are really relaxed and easygoing, no one is gonna pressure you to go beyond your limits. Chances are she will be the one getting hit on at the club, not you. 
BUT to make it work there are 4 things that are musts.
1. COMPLETE open and honest communication
2. jealousy will be there at some point, learn to work through it.
3. It is sex, not love. They don't have to go together, most guys already know this
4. It is not cheating if your partner knows and accepts it.
If you do it right, both of you will really enjoy it! There are forums out there that can help that have both male and female views. |
Why does your sex life improve? Is it that you like to see the look on her face when she is playing? I read about this quite a few years ago and at the time it was labelled "sperm competition syndrome" altough i cannot recall the exact definition. Was your wife nervous the first time? Is it easier now? Were you and how did you handle it? how did you pick a guy?
I am very visual and like to see/watch, maybe thats' part of it. I am also very competitive inother areas...most areas...lol so add it all up I guess. Anyway I have heard about this alot and I become incredibly hard when I think, or my wife talks about other cock....the rest of him really is unimportant...lol.....I feel really strange talking about this and would never speak about it to anyone I know. And if you knew me you would really wonder as I am full of testosterone and, umm, male characteristics, machismo maybe?? lol.
Thanks again for the input.