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Originally Posted by Gabby101
This really all started when we got engaged. He started nagging about how much sex we have, so when I started to initiate more, he started in with "you are only doing it to make me happy".
He has several issues in his life... Work, lack of contact with friends/family, he has male problems, takes meds for depression.
We talked about going to counciling, but it never happened.
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Yeah, it definitely sounds like some counseling and seein' the doctor is in order. Any advice you may obtain on here, you should remember to use as a "guide," but real help for both of you will only come from professional help (counselling and doctor).
I do know that *many* depression meds causes significant lower sex drive, and his "male problems" are surely an issue on his low esteem. Ultimately whatever I (and others) tell you on here, it's pretty clear that the two of you need some professional help.
Don't despair though, the fact that you are trying to reach out for help is a good sign. Now, you and your partner need to move further in seeking help.