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If you're not enjoying it - STOP DOING IT.
Now then, as a bit of education for your husband, take a dildo and press it up his rectum while you're having sex. Please use vaseline. Forget the numbing cream. Just tell him how sexually stimulating you find it.
Yes, men find the "forbidden" sexually stimulating UNTIL they are asked to experience it for themselves. Case in point - bisexuality, guys? Wanna try it?
Just because he wants it does NOT mean you have to say yes, even if it is your husband. It seems he's focusing more upon what he wants than what you want. Are you an easy multi-orgasmic ejaculator yet? If not - what in the hell has he been wasting his and your time on anal for when he cannot do straight vaginal sex right? Please see the sticky post entitled The Program above.
Once he's gotten over the shock, try investigating subtle nuanced sex, finding and exploring each other's hot buttons, doing body worship (see the sticky posts above) getting into each other's minds in a sexual way. You are both evolving over time and even with the same partner, sex is different each and every time - if you're paying attention. So pay attention. A sexually unbridled woman can blow the doors off of any 6 men you'd care to name - so get on with it.
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