[thisismyusername2]

but my husband seems to have this odd "love" for my rear (ahem.. anus). He is constantly pulling my ass cheeks apart when we have sex.. he says to see himself penetrate me from behind..but I dont know. He also gets off on sticking his finger in my ass. I dont enjoy it at all. Ive tried.. but it does nothing for me. He REALLY wants to do anal, we've tried it, didnt work out despite numbing lubes and a long session of warming up (i bled.. BAD!). Anyways.. I know THATS normal.. but its HIM getting off on stickin his finger up my ass that seems odd to me! He begs me to let him do it when he gets close to climaxing and swears that a LOT of guys enjoy doing this to girls.

Am I really that out of "the know?" Is it really that much of a turn on to straight guys? Or IS IT really odd that my straight husband enjoys looking at and fingering my ass?

TIA!

BTW: If there is an article on this, you can just kindly point me in that direction.. ive searched, but found nothing yet.