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Agreed. Sounds like she's a) misinformed and/or b) uncomfortable with the idea and giving an excuse so she doesn't just have to just leave it at 'no I'm weirded out by it'. Some just ARE weirded out by it. I was until it was done the first time, and if she's anything like I was, she can't fathom you actually WANTING to put your mouth there.
At a moment when play is not on the table, talk with her about it. Talk about medical info on what causes them, and sincerely ask her if that's all that's bothering her about it, or if there's anything else. Don't put pressure, merely discuss. And LISTEN to what she says. If she's having a mental block about it, THAT'S OK, and she needs you to tell her so. She needs you to give her the time and space to come around, and she needs to know you're fine with doing so.
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