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do u think this is signs of me being gay???
Dunno, can't help you there. Only you know I would say. I've wrestled with similar questions all my life. I think there is a biological mechanism in your brain that 'tells' you your sexual identity. It tells you which sex you are attracted to, and who you are repulsed by. Straight men are attracted to women and repulsed by men. Gay men are attracted to men and repulsed by women. In as much thought I've put into my own case, my conclusion is that I'm fully attracted to women, but the part of my brain that is supposed to make me repulsed sexually by men doesn't make me repulsed. Men do not serve my needs emotionally, or physically, but I am 100% open to the idea of seeking pleasure in, or seeking pleasure in pleasing, another man in a pinch. Sort of like, I'd rather be with a women, but if I have the itch, nothing is telling me a man can't scratch it. Or it least put some ointment on it.
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