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First, you shouldn't use erotic stories/porn as guidance to your sex life.
Second, fingers (with a glove on) work just as well and are more sensual in my opinion. You can buy toys for it, but I have never heard of them being left in for several days, that seems unrealistic and unhealthy. The key to anal is lube, and stretching gradually by fingers or toys with a flared bottom, but it seems like a very bad idea to leave them in afterwards.
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