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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Oedi has a point - if you REALLY wanted help - you would move heaven and earth to get it.
As it is you can come here and get petted "poor little boy" etc. Yeah your parents sucked - that is THEIR problem not yours. Get over it. After 18, you have to stop blaming others, focus on yourself and FIX whatevere's handicapping you, not just whining about.
It is your life. Take charge of it.
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It's easy to say 'fix it'. It's easy to say 'get self-confidence' or 'care about yourself'. But in order to move heaven and earth you have to have energy and momentum behind you...and it's hard to get that energy and momentum behind you when you have nowhere to get it from.
I'm sorry but I can't believe that when the parents teach their children self-hatred, treat them in such a way that the children hate themselves and generally create an environment of hatred and self loathing that they can then be completely absolved of that when the child reaches a magic legal number.