[missyD]

I'm in a long-term relationship... and he is still waiting for marriage. I don't really want to wait, and when we are together, I know he doesn't either. Does anyone think that there's any way I could get it out of him? Is it offensive if all I want is to have him do what I know (and what he's admitted to) he wants?

For the record: we're not 16 year olds (in which case, waiting would be a novel idea) we're both at the brink of graduating college; also, he doesn't do any of the "alternatives," so when I say waiting for marriage, I mean for everything beyond kissing.

Thanks,
E