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1. Premature Ejaculation is generally described as when a man climaxes within the first minute or so after penetration: the initial insertion, the first or second return stroke, or during the first few strokes.

What you are experiencing is an untimely or unplanned climax and this manifests itself in the same way. The fix for both are the Squeeze technique or the training exercise described in one of the articles in the Index.

2. If you want to prolong stroking, try modulating your movements until the sense of urgency subsides, rather than stopping the action altogether.

3. For repeat performances, you might try limiting or eliminating all the foreplay and just go for the stroking. This should keep your sensitivity low and lessen the tendency to climax from a light caress or a couple of strokes.