It's only fun when I do cause trouble. As the saying goes, nice girls rarely make history!!
I do not think anyone was trying to give you a pep talk so much as just giving an opinion to the question you asked. Hopefully, it gave you some insite to the delema you seem to be having. It just seems that the way you worded it to begin with you needed some self reassurance. My feeling is that if you love who you are screw everyone else. The most important person you have to please is yourself and people tend to love you for that. Good luck with everything and do not have too much fun
Just kidding have more fun then the law allows!!!