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Originally Posted by sera300
The last thing a deceased spouse or one who you divorced and cares for you, would NEVER wish you to spend a life alone recapturing "what once was". Any person who truly loves another wishes the party left behind nothing but the best! There is love to be found--you just have to allow it in! And it is never the same nor is there a competition of who you loved most since you love each so differently!
I was with my wife when passed away, she was more worried who is going to take care of me than her problem. Her daughter, son, and both grandson was with her. I do miss her alot but her pain is over and we will meet again,she was a great woman. I guess I'm still grieving  |
You will always have part of you left behind. You lost the woman you loved who must have been a magnificent lady. You find as you go through life there is no REPLACEMENT for the love you lost, you just find a happiness, new love with a different person, which is different than any other. Search for happiness since any person who truly loves another wants them to live and love again...
Some days are ten steps ahead & one step back & that one step back feels like a earth shattering experience.
Of all I know who have had their loved one or spouse die, not one ever ended grieving, they just continued to live & through living a full life found love again. But never forgot.