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The word chivlary evokes notions of medival times and is associated
with heroic/gallant deeds. So, the roots of this word involve valor,
protection and "knightly" qualities. I think it is incorrect to simply
determine that because someone is trying to be a gentleman that
they are showing disrespect for a lady. I do think that in different
regions of the country (speaking USA specifically) that customs are
different and actions can be construed differently. I, for one, was
raised to open door for ladies, remove your coat if a lady is cold, wait
for a lady to sit at dinner before I sit. Of course, to some that is silly
but to others who were raised and taught such it sort of goes without
thinking. So, probably better to not judge someone who thinks they are
doing or acting in a chilvarious manner. Oedi you do have some valid
points though.
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