Well I always respect a gentleman. But I guess theres a difference between being polite and sensitive, and being so passive you get walked over. That is definitely not attractive when a man simply says "yes dear" to everything you say and never stands up for his own wants/needs/wishes. Also, its nicer when a man does something chivalrous once and a while when you're not expecting, like randomly bringing home your favorite chocolates "just because" or buying that new DVD you want that came out today, without even being asked.
