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Squeeze technique works great for some people. It is a tried and true technique that has been used by sex therapists for years.It does not work for everyone. Squeeze my glans and I'll ejaculate in your hand!
Another technique is when you feel the urge to ejaculate approaching, slow down or stop. Try grunting, as if trying to pass a very large turd. Yeah sounds gross but this will actually RELAX everything relieve some of the pressure to ejaculate. If your partner asks what is going on, and she probably will, just tell her. She will appreciate it.
This like most things takes practice. Using the "grunt" technique you may eventually learn to seperate ejaculation from orgasm. By releasing an amount of semen without actually reaching orgasm you should be able to maintain an erection and continue in the act.
Another thing. You are probably concerned with pleasing your partner and that is why you want to last long. From a psychological viewpoint you need to be less concerned for her and get into enjoying yourself more. Eventually it will work out.
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