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When alcohol isn't involved, do you ever drop hints to your boyfriend about your attraction to other ladies (like pointing out how certain other women are cute). Would that birthday gift never have happened had drinking not been involved? I ask just to make sure that he didn't agree to it just out of lowered inhibitions.
Opinions differ from guy to guy as to whether their girl with another girl would be considered cheating or not. Personally I don't see it that way, so long as there isn't another penis involved. My wife used to fool around with other girls, and I will admit, I would only be dissappointed if it happened when I couldn't be there to watch (or join). I also know guys out there that are thouroughly disgusted at the thought of thier girl with another girl... as being intimate with someone else.
If you can start off with him able to participate in watching, if nothing else, then I'm sure he would become more accomodating to your desires.
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