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Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake
What type of friend was that? At 16, I've learned there are no such thing as "friends." Acquintances, yes. People that make you laugh and are fun to hang out with, yes. Friends, no. There might be a few exceptions; the only people I can call "friends" are males.
You didn't know people had sex issues? That's the way it should be, no one should know. This site is an exception, well I think so.
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At 14? What did I know. Not much! Learned fast friends are very few and change with times--now known as acquaintances. Over time, the deepest people I call a friend are those I know well and have demonstrated staying through time (20 years or so). Very few & can probably count on one hand. The majority of the closest are men. I have found the majority of women, if your life is not identical & picture perfect, they turn a potential friendship into a competition. Among those married? If you are non-married? You must be out to take off w/ their husband. I don't much bother...I do my own thing. At my age no; did not know people had bad/absent sex in their marriage! LOL! At least you learned early on! Now try to keep the cops out of it!
