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Originally Posted by gorgeous_mistake
Which is what all people should do, not discuss it. Why should it be necessary to tell anyone? Shouldn't even tell your "best friend" anything, one slip of the mouth and BAM there goes your reputation.
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I recall way back when I was about 14, one good friend said something to me, I said "yes, we did". She then proceeded to "no longer be my friend" since we were different. I was thinking WTF? But learned quick it's not your reputation as much it's embellished stories from people who are bored; never spoke to other women at work about sex lives, never knew they had issues, I thought everyone had great sex until I hit here---I think EEK pointed it out and all the posts.
Fast forward to the future...engaged, he spends the night, we try to sneak the car in my garage at 2 am w/out waking my brother up with the car lights (on the other half of 25 acres)...those 2 were looking out their window laughing--they said the comdey act could not be missed. My parents don't want to know, my brother does not, and I don't want to know what they do either...And no one else has any business knowing a thing.