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Old 03-10-2008, 08:27 AM
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All. They say not to reply when your angry, but the more I think about this the angierer I get.

I don't have experience with a girl as overweight as the OP's, but:

My wife has been at times over 300 pounds. Additionally, I'm about 100 pounds overweight and wear it all around my belly. Our weight definately has an impact, but we have our sex life is just fine.

I came across a reference to a research study a couple years ago. It looked at obese couples that doctors thought there was no way they could be having sex. They were. Human beings can be quite creative when it comes to sex. :-)

It will probably take extra effort, but I think the OP and his girl can manage.

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Originally Posted by Brandye View Post
I do not believe awesome love, your term, can be made to one with so little respect for her own body. Then again, simply showing attraction may sweep her off her feet.
Brandeye, I normally find your posts among the best, but this is what got me going. The first time my wife was taken to a dietician because of her weight was when she was 2 years old. Explain to me how a 2 year old does or does not have respect for her own body?

If anyone else had made the comment, I probably would of ignored it. But coming from a doctor it really pissed me off.

OK, I'm done venting. And I feel better now.... :-)
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