i've been reading through these forums, and i really like the responses from most people. they're educationally well.
anyways, i'm an 18 yr old female, and can hardly get sexually aroused... like, at all. i have to go a couple weeks without having sex just to feel a little sensation down there. but, when i was yonger, in like 7th and 8th grade, my sexual arousals came sudden, and very very strong. at first i had no clue what it was, i thought something was wrong, but never got the courage to ask anyone about it because i felt embarrassed. later i learned it was sexual arousal.
it only lasted two years though as soon as i hit my frist year of highschool, i only got really aroused one time, and it was the first time i did anything sexually with my long term bf at the time. as the years have gone by, it's been dying more every day it seems. i can still orgasm, but i have to use a stronger vibrator, and it takes forever. like, i have to force it for me to feel much now. and i have to think about things that arent very good, that make me really depressed and sad after i've hit that O. and i can't tell my boyfriend about what gets me off when i masturbate because he'll break up with me in a heart beat. (he had sexual traumas when he was very very young.
) our sex is great, and very very passionate. when i think about rough sex it turns me on sometimes, a very little bit and goes away, so sometimes i want to ask him to try it to see my body's response to it. but, he's not into rough sex, at all.
anyways, i've never been to a gyno, and i know that i really really need to go, because i was told that once ur sexually involved to start seeing one, but right now i'm financially not in the position to go.
is there any way to get arousal back? is there such thing as a similar thing to viagra? and health-wise, is it bad to have lost sexual arousal at such a young age? (like medically would it mean something's wrong?) if anyone has dealt with this issue, is it reversable?
thanks. =]