[dancingdoc2]

I gather that you are a virgin. Do you know if your hymen is intact? Have you looked at it and learned how it is constructed? It may very well be that you are poking or prodding it and this is the source of the discomfort. If you know where the opening is between the hymen and wall of the vagina, this is the best place to attempt penetration. Some hymens have one or more internal openings in the membrane. If one is large enough, you can attempt penetration there.

Until the hymen is ruptured, you will likely continue to experience some discomfort. Rupturing it may be painful.

There is also a condition that causes a person to clamp down effectively preventing penetration. You can go see your doctor about this.

There is an exercise that you can do that will help make the hymen and the vaginal opening more compliant. Just sit in a bathtub of very warm water and tug on the hymen holding the pressure for a few moments. The same thing can be done for the vagina. Hold the pressure for a few moments, then move on to the next quadrant. Do these daily and over the course of a couple of weeks you should be able to insert two fingers, especially if the hymen in absent or has a large opening. Two fingers can be used in opposition to continue the stretching exercise.