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To be honest I've never been a big fan of being fingered, especially with new bf's. I think men forget that although there isn't really much effort on their part having one or several fingers pushed into you can be extremely uncomfortable. When a man has made me orgasm just by using his hand in tends to be by massaging and rubbing the lips of my vagina or by sliding a finger just inside.
When a man has normal vaginal sex you need to manouver into a postion where he can penetrate you comfortably it's quite easy to control and you can see what's happening. But when a guy is fingering you especially when you're snogging you can't actually see what that hand up your skirt is doing, guys often loose the run of themselves and just pushe fingers into you. I actually kind of associate fingering as something you do as kids first starting to have sex.
Now I know a lot of people will say that its just a matter of communication and that's true to a point, but common sense will tell you that if your struggling to get your fingers inside a woman then it shouldn't really be neccessary for the woman to verbalise her discomfort.
For me when i snog a guy, him stroking me between my legs is very pleasurable and when i do get wet and aroused it's his cock I want not his fingers.
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