Ok so please dont anyone responding ridicule (sp) me...I have never been to the gyno before but i am geting more serious with my bf and would like to take our relationship to the next level with sex but i am scared to DEATH of getting pregnant. I will definitely make him use a condom but still without being on birth control there is no way i will do it. So...along with being scared to death of getting pregnant i am also terrified of the gyno apt. I am very self conscious, im not the perfect little size 2 girl, im more like a 250 pound girl and not big on opening up my legs to let anyone look in. I am also very nervous about the whole exam process. I have heard from friends who have been that it is the most uncomfortable experience and that it hurts...A LOT!!! Can anyone explain to me the whole process of what i will be doing there from begining to end? What all will the dr do to me?

Thanks in Advance!