[Brandye]

I never realized that there was a special name for what many of us discover on our own. Essentially, the method seems to be built around massaging the perineum while performing cunnilingus. The stuff I found talks about laying at angles, which is fine, but what makes the difference is placing the flat of your thumb or finger against the flat area between her vaginal and anal openings and pressing rhythmically while kissing her genitals - especially with the tongue on the clitoris.

What is happening is the pressure on the perineum is getting the rectal (or anal) sphincter muscles stimulated. They are the strongest muscles involved in female orgasms and really heighten the pleasure. For women who do not wish anal play, this gets those muscles involved without violating the limits she may otherwise place. Eventually, this may turn into anal play along with oral stimulation.

Whatever other elements may be in the position, I really appreciate this being done for me.