[Brandye]

If she wants a dildo, she need look no where beyond her bedroom. The number of objects that are useful is limited only by the imagination. If she wants one, let her buy it.

The vagina is an amazingly elastic organ. The only two things that really change the shape (Loosen in your terms) are childbirth and weight gain. Her playing will not make any difference but will make her more confident in herself.

It is time to have condoms and vaginal jelly available. These situations, regardless of intent, have a way of getting out of hand. Also consider age. She is not legal most places.