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Originally Posted by Brandye
Evil,
That is an important question and I do not know the answer. Never having been married, I have not faced that issue. During the two long "straight" periods of my life, I was living with a man and did not stray. I, too, would like to see the input from married women who have a g/f with respect to allowing their man some freedom. I do know whose husbands have g/f. An acquaintance of mine is married to a rather prominent German politician. The German press reports (tongue in cheek, a bit) that the only they have in common is that they both date female movie stars.
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Mine is a very different situation having been monogamous and hence true. I admire the openness of most folks on here and the admission that sex is like a sponge and one has to squeeze as much out of it as one can. I have learned of people in a lesbian situation who happily give 'booty calls' and have a sex-life a bit like a box of chocolates (Tom Hanks ref!!). I struggle at times, but am pleased that a situation outside my marriage would do me so much good.
Meanwhile, follow your heart folks!!