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I think he is wondering if he does go through with it he feels you want to trap him into the whole kids & marriage. If he is the one you wish to be with sexually & love and he feels the same; have no expectations of marriage or kids with him...it's too soon. He may believe you will have a full life expectation of him when in fact he is not certain he wants that at this time in his life. He may feel that as emotional pressure.
Realize (realistically not idealistically) the chances of you & he getting all 4 of the subsets is minimal. And realistically, you will have more men in your life over time.
Men play until they determine the time they want to settle down & at that time they re-think the kids aspect. However, it's generally not for many years. Remember biology is driving you and your thoughts. This is typical in women, men wish to sow their oats...
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