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Old 01-01-2008, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by KMB View Post
I worry that it's something not good, but he did say he wants to have sex with me not too many nights ago.

He is only 16 though.
Yes, he does it can be: 1- his fear of performance since you appear to be preparing.

2-A) Sex B)Love C)Kids D)Marriage are not mutually inclusive they can be but they can individually be mutually exclusive A-D in any combination.

He has made it clear no kids, overtly stating he is not willing to settle down yet you are both too young. I fear you are going into this with high expectations and will be hurt in the end. If you are in love & want to be sexual fine. But leave all other expectations & thoughts a side.

He may feel pressure that once he makes the leap to sex; you shall wish for more from him then he is willing/capable to give.
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