[sarah_rsl]

My suggestion for any woman that's been asked to have a threesome, would be to organise it herself. I agreed to do one with an ex boyfriend but rather than take his suggestion of partner who I didn't know I sorted it out with a friend, who I had some sexual experiences with (it was mainly just mutual masturbation)

It happened just like i planned it my friend and i kissed and cuddled (mainly for his benefit) then my bf had sex with her while she was in my arms then then again while my friend held me.

One issue we had was being in a long term relationship my bf and i didn't use condom but when it came to my friend I insisted he use one (he would have anyway) even when she went down on him.Which he wasn't used to.

But he did the business. I think he mainly enjoyed the stimulation of having two women in bed, and now that looking back I think he would have been happy just having her in the bed and snogging her, then shagging me.

It gave out sex lives a boost. Our relationship while relativly longterm (2years before it ended) wasn't that strong and ended when work seperated us. Its not something I would do with my husband now.

All in all the 3 some was more for my bf's benefit than mine, he loved it, he was quite open about if fufilling a sexual fantasy for him, and i was happy to do it.