First: Thigh High Hose (any color)
Second: Garter belt to match hose.
Third: Crotchless Panties
Fourth: Most anything sheer
Fifth: Costumes (enjoy school girl, cheer leader, hooker)
My lady is opposed to costumes of any kind, says they make her a slut, what might I say to her to explain it is not slutty when between two committed people of long standing.