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Originally Posted by sera300
I have to ask the reason for not discussing your sexual "needs" with your wife. Do you not believe you owe her disclosure? What about the health risks you are subjecting her to? If you have not discussed your alter-life with her you are not being fair since this is deceitful to her and you are not allowing her to make an informed decision. A marriage is more then satisfying your wants, needs, and fantasies...she is part of the equation, like it or not.
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I'd have to say his thinking is along the lines of something you said:
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Originally Posted by sera300
I agree it's about the commitment you made to the other person. The most significant part is monogamy.
The issue arises when in my previous situation; when you cannot satisfy the other persons urge to be with the person of the same sex. It can make for a very unhappy relationship since you realize no matter what you try to do, as a woman, you are not enough and cannot meet their sexual needs.
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