Im 16 years old and i have gotten to "2nd base" with girls. Making out, feeling up, sucking titties etc. The most ive gotten is a hand job, which was shitty. Anyways, i have 2 situations which i feel are quite annoying and unusual. The first is, I get a boner really easily. I'll be sitting and talking to a girl or just putting my arm around a girl, or a girl will sit on my lap, and ill start getting a boner. Why do i get boners so easily? My second question is, even if I am just making out with a girl, i will cum in my pants and blow my load just from making out with a girl. WHen i was in the movies w/ this one chick, we were making out and i fingered her, and by the time she wanted to give me a handjob, i was still hard but i had already ejaculated. Why do i ejaculate so easily? Please reply, i havnt asked anyone these questions before.
One more thing, my balls seem to itch extremely badly and this has been going on for a year. Ive tried different creams and sprays and everything else, but they itch really badly and im constantly scratching them. After going to the dermatologist and taking his advice, I blowdry my nuts after i get out of the shower so that they arnt moist when i put my boxers on. I still constantly have an itch and constantly scratch them. Is it a habit now? If it is, its gonna be harder trying to stop myself from scratching my nuts then it is curing some1 from their heroine addicition.
Anything that will help me? thanks everyone
I know how u are man . the exact same stuff happens to me (accept the itchy balls) i get boners easily and when im making out,feeling, ect.... i sumtimes ejaculate in my pants
..... im 15 but i dunno why it happens i hope sum 1 can awnser to this
You guys are still relatively young, but you'll begin to move into your sexual peak in a few years. Your hormones are running rampant right now and ANY stimulation is triggering these hormones resulting in your "boner" (haven't heard that term since I was in high school 30-years ago) or even ejaculation.
In any event, what you're going thru is a natural coming of age cycle and is nothing to worry about. You'll begin to "learn" how to control it soon.
As for the itchy balls, since you're in the midst of puberty, it's possible that the itching is caused by the formation of new hair follicles. If it's more of a rash, you might want to pick up some Caldesene or other medicated powder (for diaper rash.) Try putting this on and switch to briefs for a week or so. Put some of the powder onto the crotch of the brief as well. If you have a minor rash, this should clear it up in no time.
Ok Penguin, let's take 'em one at a time:
Question: Why do you get a "boner" so easily?
Answer: You're 16, and your producing TONS of hormones that are need for you to grow and mature. At your age, you probably get an erection at least 2 or 3 times an hour even WITHOUT any kind of touching. Just know it's NORMAL and all of us guys went through it!
Question: Why do you "cum" so quickly
Answer: Again, alot has to do with your age and hormones. Your body is surging with hormones and so as you engage in any kind of sexual or sensual activity, your body will react to it. That said, if you KNOW you're going to see your girlfriend, you might want to masturbate before going out. Also, go a bit slower..if u feel like you're close to shooting...slow down or stop. You can also tell her, "You are really getting me so hot, i'm getting close to cumming you turn me on so much..let's slow down a bit."
Question: Why are your balls itch?
Answer: If i had to guess, i'd say it's because your growing hair down there more and more every day, and your genitals (cock and balls) are also growing. Some ideas to keep the itch down is: corn startch or gold bond powder. Heat, sweat and such will make the itch worse. Using either the corn starch or gold bond will absorb the sweat and lessen the need to scratch.
hope this helps!
Yeah it is normal... if i had a penis and i was talking to a guy wait a girl i would be doing the same thing. Girls get as excited.... and my first time making out... even though i am a girl man i was soooooo wet when i got home so don't worry it is PERFECTLY NATURAL....my boyfriend still gets a bonar even when he just sees me it is a little funny lol well anyway it is normal.... as for the itchy balls... maybe you are overwashing then and they are drying out you may have sensative skin around that area that dries out quickly .... try washing your balls and just yyour balls one day and then the next day don't wash them... it happens to me ... accept i don't have balls... when some parts of my skin are so sensative that they itch depending on which soap i use... have you been using the same soap all the time... cuz that may be it....change soaps... don't wash do wash... look up stuff online and you will find out what is wrong just experiment ... you and your balls lol
Also do what they said... goldbond and stuff it may be the hair on your balls... or it may be what they said. Cuz sometimes when i forget to shave down there my hair is all over the place and it is itchy too... sorry to grose you out but it is true and normal