hey.....ok ...iv been goin out with this girl for a while now and we have made out and stuff...and i think she is ready to go to the next level(mentioned it a little and heard form her frins). so my ? is, how should i go about making the move on her to finger/oral sex ect.(basicly take it to next level) i know she hasnt had any1 go down on her or finger her before, so this would be her first time too. so can anyone give me some suggestions on how to make my move on her and then on how i should go about the process.
Thankz a buch!
i find as a girl it all comes very naturally, hard to beleive i know, when i was first fingered i imagined some pain and i was scared, but it just happened and wasnt scary, but very good (lol) and all the things i imagined didnt happen. it will come naturally to you to, if you both feel comfortable enough with eachuva. best of luck hun x
Well-as I've read on many other posts on this site-this biggest thing I think rubberband would be communication. Everything my g/f and I have done together have been firsts for both of us-and we found the best way to get to this stuff is to talk about it. I mean-if you're aren't comfortable talking about taking things to the next level-you probably aren't ready to do it. Before we did anything we've always talked about beforehand-and were both completly comfortable when an opportunity presented itself. Good luck!