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I took my first trip to the gyno and got a pelvic exam.
It hurt me very badly.
Does the first time having sex hurt that bad???

also, if you are not turned on, it will hurt a lot more trying to get it in.

Whether you're going to feel pain or not depends on a number of things. Not only how big the guy is but also how relaxed you are. It's also going to hurt more if you're nervous about it. If you're relly comfortable with the guy and the idea of having sex, then it may not hurt at all.

My first boyfriend was pretty well endowed and I did bleed a little, I felt a little pinch the first time but because I was so relaxed and into him it was nearly painless. The next morning however I was a little sore and the second time I had sex with him it hurt a little more (probably because I was stressing out about hurting again the morning after). But two or three times and it'll start to feel really good.

Ever seen the movie 'KIDS'? A bunch of girls have this same discussion.

It also depends on how big the guy is. Very first time I've done it with my ex, who was tiny, it didn't hurt at all. Actually, I didn't feel him much either. But after I met my now bf, even though I wasn't a virgin, our first time hurt me really really bad. SO it all depends on the guy and how much lube you use.

It varies from girl to girl. Like thetease said, her first time hurt quit a bit, where as other people I know have said they experienced no pain at all.

It depends. My first time hurt like a bitch...because I wasn't lubed up enough.

Other people have no problem with their first time.

However, since you've been to the gyno already, you will somewhat know what to expect and it probably won't hurt as bad. It may still hurt some, but you have been "broken in" down there a little bit so to speak, so it shouldn't hurt AS bad.
Granted, that logic speaking so who really knows.

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